Treat your girl right, bro. Plain and simple. I know it can be hard to please her sometimes, but it’s worth it in the end. Remember that she’s your happiness, your world. She should be the first person you talk to in the morning, and the last person you whisper “Good night” to. Unlike some of your bros, she’s going to be there for you when you’re the happiest, but more importantly, when you’re at your lowest. She’ll cook for you and care for you, so treat her like a queen. Girls are delicate creatures. Think before you say. Think before you act. They take every little mistake you make and multiply it by a thousand. So try not to mess up, aight? When you’re fighting, sometimes it’s better to put your relationship before your own pride. You’re not helping yourself by making her upset, bro. And never, ever, under any condition, let her go to sleep crying. She’ll resent you for it for the rest of your days. Don’t forget to make her feel special everyday. Open doors, go shopping with her. Hell, make dinner for her! The more you show her you love her, the more she’ll give you in return. Remember that an “I love you” via text is never as special as one in person. And show her off to your bros, don’t be ashamed of her. She’s never been ashamed of your dorky ass. Look, she doesn’t really need much in a relationship; she just wants to feel like she matters to you. That’s not asking for much, bro.
But if you haven’t learned a thing from reading this, remember this. Love her unconditionally, loyally, and keep her close. Love her with everything you’ve got: emotionally, mentally, and physically. Because I swear, if you won’t treat your girl right, I will.
“To Took!” WOW! word “to” must be followed by an infinitive dude! ur a college grad and yet you don’t know how to use it. tsk tsk tsk… better if you’ll just use our native language in posting, Employers might read it, and that can be your downfall! Believe me!
‘Cause what i didn’t know is I was killing you, I said a lot of things that i didn’t mean to. But I am older now and I am sorry too, so i can wait awhile if it brings me back to you…
I was a man who put a on a brave face,
While caught up in powerful insecurity and self doubt.
Feelings of anger, unworthiness,
and desperation were too often with me.
I had deeply ingrained habits of Taking everything personally
And reframing questions into accusations.
Very much an "all or none" kind of guy,
I found myself building strong boundaries,
Then tearing them down again,
Feeling like they never settled anywhere useful.
I was constantly at war with myself and those around me.
My life was filled with situations and questions
That felt unpleasant, intractably complex and impossible to resolve.
For me, the present moment seemed uncomfortably tied to the past
And dangerously affecting the future...
